When does a community become a herd, with a herd mentality? And how can leaders of a community prevent this from happening, without stifling the community? Photo by sean_hickin
Last week, I attended my first Ignite Boulder event. The day after the event, I spent time writing and discussing just what I felt and observed when a community of 800+ people get together, for a fun night out. Now, I'm left with the residue of anger, angst, sadness, and lots of reflection about where we are headed as a society. And the question about what happens when a community becomes a herd.
What I experienced at Ignite Boulder is a symptom of our society at large. These are the early adopters, the intelligentsia, the creatives who start companies or work in start-ups. They are not only a product of our society but they also lead the way in shaping the next chapter. I say this not to be smug but rather an assessment of who Boulder attracts and who Ignite Boulder attracts. Photo by purpleslog.
The Ignit
e Boulder event is described on the website as:
"....a night of presentations with
a twist. Presenting on a subject of their choice, speakers
have exactly five minutes to teach something, enlighten us, or simply
inspire—backed by twenty slides auto-advancing every fifteen
seconds. Quick, fun, and smart, we sell out the Boulder
Theater."
I didn't know what to expect other than that I would be in a crowd of smart, funny people, watching other smart, funny people, who are courageous enough to be on stage being smart and funny. This is the equivalent of stand up comedy for nerds. The format of the evening can easily breed gluttons in the audience, looking for the next tasty morsel (myself included.)
Observation #1: As a society, we have gotten used to snacking instead of the full meal. Sometimes the snacks are nutritious. But just as often, they end up being junk food. Photo by Greencolander.
At the beginning of the evening,the emcee of the event gave the rules of engagement. I was surprised that this included encouraging the audience to participate, by talking back, and even heckling. He described it in terms of two sumo wrestlers, the speakers on one side and the audience on the other. As the evening wore on, I felt the uneasiness of a modern version of the Roman Colosseum. Who would be thrown to the lions next and how would the presenter react? For some, the pressure to be the evening's hip edutainment meant that they amped up the bravado or the self-righteousness or both. For others, I could see that they clearly wanted to get to the end of the presentation by the fourth slide. What was lost in most of the presentations (14 in all) was a genuine message, borne of someone's experience, that could be taken in and digested.
Observation #2: As a society, we have gotten confused between true public discourse, based on respect for differing views, and raw communication of impulses and feelings. And we prefer raw communication, especially when in a crowd. Photo by JMRosenfeld.
To the emcee's credit, he sensed the crowd turning, becoming more of a mob than a community. He reminded the audience that "we are a community" and that it took courage to be speaking in front of 800+ people. But no matter. The vibe of the evening had already been set by the opening remarks. The audience was just feeding off of it.
Observation #3: As a society and in communities, we take our cue from our leaders. And when leaders behave badly or misjudge the power of their words, we are all given permission to behave badly.
This was the tenth time that Ignite Boulder had been held. Looking at the schedule of past events, the organizers have kept up a dizzying pace of holding these sell out gatherings every 6-8 weeks for the last 18 months. There's an army of volunteers who put the show on. The proceeds go to charity. What started out as a way to highlight talent and interesting people in Boulder has become a local version of American Idol, for our own amusement.
Observation #4: We can start out with good intentions and end up with bad results. Communities and society evolve to something that no one ever intended. Both need tending and nurturing. Otherwise, it's easy to rationalize that the end justifies the means.
As you would expect, there is a definite feeling of an "inner circle", that there are insiders at Ignite Boulder. Nothing wrong with that. It's what happens with all communities. (Think: 80/20 rule, 20% of the people account for 80% of the contributions.) However, the trap is thinking that the inner circle is smarter than the collective. It is not. Some of the most uneven presentations of the evening came from speakers who were chosen by the organizers and unprepared for what they were getting into. Listen to what the entire community wants and needs, not just what the insider thinks is best.
Observation #5: As a society and in communities, it can be seductive to view the inner circle as "the anointed." We are all learning, together. None of us is as smart as all of us. The stray voice will often be the one that needs to be heard the most. Photo by byrne7214
I don't have any easy answers. I do have a new appreciation for the
role of community managers. It requires a level of humility, listening,
compassion, and leadership that is rare.
This blog is about being a wisdom entrepreneur and how to turn an idea into a sustainable movement, by building a thriving community. I'm grateful for the learning that comes with seeing communities fail, just as much as with seeing them succeed.
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