After a two-week hiatus, I'm back online. It seems that all around me, change is in the air. Later this month, I'll announce changes for A Bigger Voice, a shift in the focus of our efforts for 2009.
In the meantime, what's on my mind is the nature of online and offline communities. Next week, several folks from the A Bigger Voice team will be meeting in person for the first time--Beth, Bill, Ellen, and Marissa. (Unfortunately, our budget could not include flying Simon to the US from New Zealand, much as we are all curious to see if Simon is really as wonderful in person as he is online.) Marissa is our fabulous behind the scenes "strategic can-do-ologist" (her words, but I clearly resonate with them) who makes this whole blogging thing a lot easier and more fun.
Beth, Bill, Ellen, and I have been working together since last March. Marissa joined in August. Except for a few brief periods, we have met every week over the phone since March 2008. That's ten months of of weekly calls, working the logistics of a pilot with three clients, collaborating on client work, and evolving the concepts of A Bigger Voice. That's ten months of getting to know how our days have gone outside of working on A Bigger Voice. Ten months of seeing each others' strengths and where each of us struggles, uniquely.
Somewhere in the middle of the year, we formed a community. An online community. Without the normal visual cues to help us sort out whether a person was someone we wanted to get to know better or could trust, we each relied on words, thoughts, actions, emotions and the sound of voices. We relied on hearing someone's sense of humor or seeing their compassion for someone needing a helping hand.
This is the nature of community, independent of whether it's online or offline--the forming of relationships that make the whole bigger than the parts. The more we see of each other, in our best and worst moments, the stronger the community. Forming a community can be messy. That's been the case here as well.
When we meet as a group in-person this month for the first time ever, I will be bracing myself to cry. Not because I won't like Beth, Bill, Ellen, and Marissa in person as much as online and virtually. But because I will like them more. I will be grateful for the chance to experience each of them more fully. Gratitude, followed by intense emotion, usually reduces me to a sobbing mess, followed by hiccupping, like a small child might do after a big meltdown.
This is also the nature of community. Sharing moments that are remarkable and memorable, that make us remember we each have a soul.
A Bigger Voice will always come down to engaging others, deeply, in our passions, and moving that into action. I hope you find a way to take the journey in 2009.
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